Mrz 17

Most Wanted
Most Wanted (1997)

IMDB rating: 5.30

Plot: Sgt. James Dunn, who is wrongly accused of assassination of the officer he had a row with, is saved from death row and recruited for top-secret special operations squad led by Lt. Col Grant Casey. Their mission is to neutralize criminals who had avoided conventional law enforcement methods. On his first Mission, James is made the fall guy for the assassination of the first lady and everyone is looking for him and Dr. Victoria Constantini who was lucky to videotape what happened. One of the forces looking for him is military, led by Gen. Adam Woodward, which is in fact an alias for Grant Casey.

find and download Most Wanted in iPod/iPhone quaity

Directors: Hogan David

Actors: Wayans Keenen Ivory,Kotecki Robert,Cramer Rick,Whitaker Kenn,Bodison Wolfgang,Voight Jon,Velez Eddie,Marich Michael,Baker Simon,Culp Robert,Roberts Eric,Sorvino Paul,Diehl John,Action,Thriller,

what is hunter(20 characters)?
So i ride western, i know a little about english but i want to know more.
Could you give me detailed explanation of what hunter is? thanks so much!!!

Mrz 17

Once Upon a Time in China II
Once Upon a Time in China II (1992)

IMDB rating: 7.40

Plot: In this sequel, martial arts expert Wong Fei-Hung faces Kung, a mercenary rival with skills to equal his own. In addition, Canton is convulsed by a struggle between the local representatives of the Chinese government and Europeans who want to control China, and Wong ends up in the middle of this fight. He is again assisted by young Chung, and again must protect Aunt Yee, his young, Westernized aunt-by-adoption with whom Wong has fallen in love. He also ends up with school-full of small children to protect!

Directors: Tsui Hark

Actors: Li Jet,Chiang David,Fonoroff Paul,Ho Ka-Kui,Mok Siu Chung,Xiong Xin Xin,Yen Donnie,Yen Shi-Kwan,Action,Romance,

Can you believe any of this about President Obama I just got this today II?
And China reconsidered their one trillion dollars of loans to the USA, and threatened to call in their debts. Other foreign trading partners said unto "The One", "Wait a minute.. Your dollar is not worth a pile of camel dung! You will have to pay more… for everything… as your dollar becomes worth less."
And the people said, "Wait a minute… That is unfair!!"
And the world said, "Neither are these other idiotic programs you have embraced. Lo, you have become a Socialist state and a second-rate power. What factories are not owned by your government are owned by us. Now you shall play by our rules!" And "The One" said "Americans are arrogant, divisive, and derisive!" "We will listen."
And the people cried out, "Alas, alas!! What have we done?"
But yea verily, it was too late. The people eventually set upon "The One" and spat upon him and stoned him, and his name was dung. But the once mighty nation was no more; and the once proud people were without sustenance or shelter or hope. And the Change that "The One" had given them was as like unto a poison that had destroyed them from within, and like a whirlwind that consumed all that they had built.
And the people beat their chests in despair and cried out in anguish, "Give us back our nation and our pride and our hope!!"
But it was too late, and the once-glorious "Home of the Brave and Land of the Free" was no more..
____________________________________________________________
You may think this is a fairy tale, but it’s not. It’s happening RIGHT NOW, Already everything down to the last couple of lines….


You our right, our spending is a true problem, it is going to destoy America and turn us into a failed-state. Obama is only making the Problem worse, We need to get someone who actually will keep their campain promis to stop over spending, OUr debt is already so high that it will take dacades to pay off to a even a reasonalble level.

fweep7339 | May 06, 2009


no.
Croaker | May 06, 2009


No
Marcia B | May 06, 2009


This is very true. People are blind to the fact that there Mesiah is actually going to doom us all.
Connor53 | May 06, 2009


And I thought it would something important given was asked two times in past minute

But…alas…*.eyes rolling* and big big sigh

yet another rant from a confused and very troubled republican

Why am not surprised….so after first line did not even read as now talking to the hand

No do not believe it and if comes from a con…sure would not even bother to read it further

See…waste of time…these days as Always the same old bull sh*t
darcy m | May 06, 2009


Awwwwwwww…..so that’s how it ends. I wonder how the people can change the story and make it a happy ending. Oh wait, they can’t. Just as sheep never, ever see the killing knife until it is too late, they are too stupid to see it coming. We are the sheep. And the public schools and the propaganda machine blanketing the airwaves has dulled our brains.

Really nice story though. But oh so sad.
Rupert G | May 06, 2009


Republican Propaganda! You guys will try anything to discredit America to win an election for your own selfish gains, shame on you, All of the money we print is secured and the world wants our money and our goods and our business.
America is as strong and free and as prosperous as ever, so we don’t spend 10 to one of the world money like we dod two years ago, but we will very soon, and be stronger for it too. Get a life, our government is very strong and we are heading in the right direction. If the Republican Party doesn’t follow it will be left behind, Ron Paul and his party is ready to be the second party in America!!
just for fun | May 06, 2009


None of that is Obama’s fault.
tiosha m | May 06, 2009


It’s not just Obama, but rather the entire American government!
Michelle | May 06, 2009


huh?
starlove2 | May 06, 2009


barry fans will not listen to facts. After the destruction they will wonder who is to blame.
clean truck | May 06, 2009


When you start printing money on a vast scale with nothing to back it up with, it becomes worthless.
John V | May 06, 2009

Mrz 16

Meltdown
Meltdown (1995)

IMDB rating: 5.70

Plot: After failing to save his wife from ‘The Doctor’, Kit Li is working as a bodyguard and secret stunt double for the cowardly martial arts film star Frankie Lane. Frankie attends an exhibition of the crown jewels of Russia at a Hong Kong hotel, and when the Doctor’s gang take over the building in attempt to steal them, Kit is the only thing standing in their way. Will Frankie regain his courage? Will romance blossom between Kit and the nosy reporter? Who has the best Kung-Fu?

Meltdown

Directors: Wong Jing

Actors: Action

How can I prevent or handle public tantrums in my three year old toddler?
My son is just a little over three and has always been very good natured until the last three weeks. He is now having daily tantrums that last for about an hour. My main concern is when he has these tantrums in public and how I should handle it? One of his triggers is when I pick him up from the gym daycare. He doesn’t want to leave so he he goes into complete meltdown mode telling me to go away and that he hates me. What am I suppose to do? Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you.


i am going through the same things with my 2 year olds. this is how i handle the situation:
-first i tell them to stop (usually never works but i think its important to tell them)
-second if it continues tell them that if he doesn’t stop then you are going to go sit in the car until he does
-if he doesn’t stop at this point- put down whatever you have pick him up and carry him to the car (this may cause a scene but he has to know that in public you are still in charge)
-sit in the car until he calms down and tell him that if it happens again you are going home and he is going to go (what ever punishment you do at home)
-go back to whatever you were doing like nothing happened
-if it happens again go home

it also works to have a treat or a spacial snack in the car for the ride home for if he is good. make sure he knows about them before you go do what you are doing and he doesn’t get them if he has an outburst
Chloe+Melia's mom- due April | Mar 11, 2010


I think it’s great that you’re open to suggestions and are being proactive with parenting. This issue is very common and there are definitely some proactive things you can do to help the situation. I know it can be like a dagger to the heart when your kid says that they hate you, but it’s not true, he’s probably having trouble finding the right words and phrases to communicate his frustration.
Regarding the day care, when you go to pick him up, if you have ten minutes to spare, spend some time with him there, let him show you what he learned or what happened and all the while you should take little moments here and there to mentally prepare him that it will be time to go in a few minutes. Start having him say goodbye to his friends and care providers and assist him in gathering his things, etc. Another idea is to talk to the day care providers and see if they would be willing to talk with him and begin to mentally prepare him to leave, letting him know about ten minutes prior to your arrival and again five minutes before you get there. It would help you out if they could even get him to help pick up toys and gather his things ahead of time so that it’s not as much of a shock or surprise when you show up to get him. Kids his age don’t have a concept of time, which is why they need so much direction and reminders.
It may seem easier to just stay home more often but this will only delay the issue and make situations more difficult for you later. Before leaving the house, begin by setting clear, simple expectations for your child (in a way that doesn’t come off as a threat, but rather supportive and encouraging). The first thing to remember when your child begins to act up or misbehave in public is to remain calm. Instead of completely removing them from the situation, see if there is a more isolated place that would still be considered "public" and teach to it there. Disciplining children while in a public place is actually a unique and vital teaching opportunity for them. It may be a good idea to do a few

Mrz 16

Dune
Dune (1984)

IMDB rating: 6.40

Plot: In the far future, a duke and his family are sent by the Emperor to a sand world from which comes a spice that is essential for interstellar travel. The move is designed to destroy the duke and his family, but his son escapes and seeks revenge as he uses the world’s ecology as one of his weapons.

here i download online Dune and download

Directors: Lynch David

Actors: Cimino Leonardo,Dourif Brad,Ferrer Jose,Jones Freddie,Jordan Richard,MacLachlan Kyle,McGill Everett,McMillan Kenneth,Nance Jack,Prochnow Jurgen,Action,Adventure,Sci-Fi,Fantasy,

What scenes were these songs in public enemies?
Well i watched pubblic enemies(brillaint isnt it) anyway i have heard all the sountrack songs and know where most of songs are in the scenes but i dont know them all–can somebody tell me which scene each song is at–heres the list.

1.Ten Million Slaves-know where that is

2. Chicago Shake

3. Drive to Bohemia

4. Love Me or Leave Me

5. Billie’s Arrest–know where that is

6. Am I Blue?

7. Love in the Dunes

8. Bye Bye Blackbird-know where that is

9. Phone Call to Billie-know where that is

10. Nasty Letter
I also have other questions i forgot about–did he know the FBI was wating for him when he came out of the theatre if not did the women who went with him tell him.

ALSO was he going to try and break billie his girlfriend out of jail later


Soundtrack songs are not always played during a movie. Some are added after to make the soundtrack more substantial.I would recommend watching the movie and when the music begins try to match the tune on your computer.
Holmes | Feb 04, 2010


Well, here it is – the songs as well as their respective scenes

Link- http://what-song.com/movie/title.php?Tit le=Public%20Enemies
mani | Feb 04, 2010

Mrz 16

Dune
Dune (1984)

IMDB rating: 6.40

Plot: In the far future, a duke and his family are sent by the Emperor to a sand world from which comes a spice that is essential for interstellar travel. The move is designed to destroy the duke and his family, but his son escapes and seeks revenge as he uses the world’s ecology as one of his weapons.

here i download online Dune and download

Directors: Lynch David

Actors: Cimino Leonardo,Dourif Brad,Ferrer Jose,Jones Freddie,Jordan Richard,MacLachlan Kyle,McGill Everett,McMillan Kenneth,Nance Jack,Prochnow Jurgen,Action,Adventure,Sci-Fi,Fantasy,

What scenes were these songs in public enemies?
Well i watched pubblic enemies(brillaint isnt it) anyway i have heard all the sountrack songs and know where most of songs are in the scenes but i dont know them all–can somebody tell me which scene each song is at–heres the list.

1.Ten Million Slaves-know where that is

2. Chicago Shake

3. Drive to Bohemia

4. Love Me or Leave Me

5. Billie’s Arrest–know where that is

6. Am I Blue?

7. Love in the Dunes

8. Bye Bye Blackbird-know where that is

9. Phone Call to Billie-know where that is

10. Nasty Letter
I also have other questions i forgot about–did he know the FBI was wating for him when he came out of the theatre if not did the women who went with him tell him.

ALSO was he going to try and break billie his girlfriend out of jail later


Soundtrack songs are not always played during a movie. Some are added after to make the soundtrack more substantial.I would recommend watching the movie and when the music begins try to match the tune on your computer.
Holmes | Feb 04, 2010


Well, here it is – the songs as well as their respective scenes

Link- http://what-song.com/movie/title.php?Tit le=Public%20Enemies
mani | Feb 04, 2010

Mrz 14

Romeo Must Die
Romeo Must Die (2000)

IMDB rating: 5.70

Plot: In this modern day Romeo and Juliet, kung fu action star Jet Li plays Romeo to hip-hop singer, Aaliyah Haughton’s Juliet. Li is an ex-cop investigating the murder of his brother, who had ties with the Chinese mafia in America. Aaliyah plays the daughter of the American mob boss. Neither side approves of their romance, so, obviously, kung fu action ensues, with a soundtrack by Aaliyah.

Directors: Bartkowiak Andrzej

Actors: Li Jet,Washington Isaiah,Wong Russell,DMX,Lindo Delroy,Woodside D.B.,O Henry,Lee Jonkit,Ballerini Edoardo,Anderson Anthony,Harrison Matthew,Chen Terry,Lowe Derek,Wong Ronin,Action,Crime,Drama,Thriller,

are Asian men that unromantic?
do you ever tend to realize that in a lot of movies especially action movies Asian men normally tends to get the little brother-sister hugs and petty kiss. I mean when you watch movies the asian men are unattractive, short and don’t speak english ever well.. and they seem to see any romance, you know like Asian men are cold and don’t know how to through it down in the sack…LOL!! for example the Romeo must die and Ninja Assassin. …


thats a stereotype
if you believe that
your mind is brainwash by the jews of hollywood
ONLY WESTERN MOVIE PROTRAYS THAT
if you watch korean drama or taiwanese drama
its different
asian men have a realistic and normal role

Auseein | Dec 30, 2009


So you’re going to judge a group of people based on what you’ve seen in a movie?

Movies give a very distorted view of reality. If you go to asian countries, the only black people you see in movies are thugs or fat black women. Does that mean that all black men are thugs or that all black women are fat?

No. TV is TV, reality is reality. Learn the difference.
jessicawear2003 | Dec 30, 2009


yeh and black are potrayed as killers and thiefs in movies
Sanchez | Dec 30, 2009


i hardly see asian men in movies except kick as* Jackie chan
MAMA NO | Dec 30, 2009


Maybe you should try watching some asian romance movies instead of action movies.
Yaoi Rule B*itches | Dec 30, 2009


I’ve seen some pretty hot and sexy Asian men. But then again I’ve never believed that stereotype about them. Ken Watanabe or R&B singer/actor Rain or Rick Yune or Russell Wong that is just to name a few. :) All those guys are handsome as hell and their bodies I absolutely lust after lol.
Afrika | Dec 30, 2009


nah man those are just movies, i have a korean friend of mine who just moved to america, he is the most romantic person out there..
Can u rock my world? | Dec 30, 2009


American media has put Asian men in a box. They either make them the nerd or the cold hearted martial artist. You should look at Asian media, specifically Korean dramas, if you want to see Asian men portrayed as romantic.
lil' miss | Dec 30, 2009


watch movies made in Asia. Not the American ones
??? ?? | Dec 30, 2009


Us Asian men are the most romantic sentimental lovers in the world. We are not subhuman caricatures like Hollywood movies makers portraying us on TV and the silver screens.
ChevalierCourageux | Dec 30, 2009


Hollywood hate Asian guys. This is away for white people to eliminate competition and make it easier to sell their whiteness.

Go watch Korean Drama.

Are black women that pathetic? I mean, I see movies and black women are loud, obnoxious. Get my point.

Asian guys are lot more romantic than white people. STOP WATCHING TV.
aSxx | Dec 30, 2009


Society refuses to accept Asian men in romantic roles. Sad but true.
strong_intelligent_freedom | Dec 30, 2009


That

Mrz 14

21 (Twenty One, The Movie)
21 (Twenty One, The Movie) (2008)

IMDB rating: 7.00

Plot: Ben Campbell is a young, highly intelligent, student at M.I.T. in Boston who strives to succeed. Wanting a scholarship to transfer to Harvard School of Medicine with the desire to become a doctor, Ben learns that he cannot afford the $300,000 for the four to five years of school since he comes from a poor, working-class background. But one evening, Ben is introduced by his unorthodox math professor Micky Rosa into a small but secretive club of five students, Jill, Choi, Kianna, and Jimmy whom are being trained by Professor Rosa of the skill of card counting at blackjack. Intriged by the desire to make money, Ben joins his new friends on secret weekend trips to Las Vegas where, using their skills of code talk and hand signals, they have Ben make hundreds of thousands of dollars in winning blackjack at casino after casino. Ben only wants to make enough money for the tuition to Harvard and then back out. But as fellow card counter, Jill Taylor, predicts, Ben becomes corrupted by greed and his arrogance at winning which lets his feelings get in the way, and it also puts Professor Rosa, as well as the group, on the radar of a brutal casino security enforcer, named Cole Williams, who holds a personal grudge of some kind against Rosa which threatens to undo everything the students have learned and earned.

Directors: Luketic Robert

Actors: Sturgess Jim,Spacey Kevin,Yoo Aaron,Pitts Jacob,Fishburne Laurence,McGee Jack,Gad Josh,Golzari Sam,Gilpin Jack,Williams Butch,Campbell Ben,Drama,

Are these movies good for Halloween?
1.Halloween 8: Resurrection
2.Scream
3.Halloween 7:H20 Twenty Years Later
4.30 Days of Night
5.Diary of the Dead(2007)
6.Quarantine
7.Halloween(2007)
8.House of Wax
9.The Strangers
10.Night of the Living Dead(1990)
11.The Amityville Horror(2005)
12.P2
13.Wrong Turn
14.Carrie
15.Halloween 2(1981)
16.Halloween 3(1892)
17.Wrong Turn 2
18.Cabin Fever
19.Saw 2
20.Ginger Snaps
21.Saw 3
22.Prom Night(2008)
23.My Bloody Valentine 3D
24.Paranormal Activity


Don’t watch Quarantine. Its honestly crap.

rachel (y) | Oct 19, 2009


well you forgot nightmare one elm street 1 3 4

ive seen diary of the dead its crap its like a student film

il tell you the movies i agree with

Scream
7.Halloween(2007)
8.House of Wax
17.Wrong Turn 2
19.Saw 2
21.Saw 3
23.My Bloody Valentine 3D

add the excocist i dont think i spelt it right saw 3 and night mare on elm street
. | Oct 19, 2009


First off, the only movie from the Halloween series worthy of the actual holiday is the original John Carpenter’s Halloween from 1978. Moving through your list, I would only recommend the following movies: numbers 2, 4, 6, 14, 20, 24. There are so many more that you didn’t list that are much better than those that you did. But I hope this suggestion helps.
Sir Real | Oct 19, 2009


Yes, those are good halloween movies
SI | Oct 19, 2009


evil dead, excorcist, cannibal holocaust, trick or treat, hellraiser, braindead.
oopsmore15 | Oct 19, 2009

Mrz 14

Zombieland
Zombieland (2009)

IMDB rating: 8.60

Plot: In the horror comedy Zombieland focuses on two men who have found a way to survive a world overrun by zombies. Columbus is a big wuss — but when you’re afraid of being eaten by zombies, fear can keep you alive. Tallahassee is an AK-toting, zombie-slaying’ bad ass whose single determination is to get the last Twinkie on earth. As they join forces with Wichita and Little Rock, who have also found unique ways to survive the zombie mayhem, they will have to determine which is worse: relying on each other or succumbing to the zombies.

Zombieland

Directors: Fleischer Ruben

Actors: Akins Jake,Burnley Daniel,Burns Chris,Cole Dalton,Davis Anthony J.,Eisenberg Jesse,Grant Travis,Harrelson Woody,Hopkins Barry,Murray Bill,Prouty Steve,Walker Clay,Warren Steve,Young Travis,Comedy,Horror,

Has anyone ever heard of "Woke Up Dead"?
I just saw a preview for it on the Zombieland DVD. Is it a TV series? If so, does anyone know what channel it’s on?


You can watch all the little episodes here. Doesn’t seem to be a TV series but I don’t know, I only watched the first clip on the Zombieland DVD.

Dylan | Feb 08, 2010

Mrz 13

Seabiscuit
Seabiscuit (2003)

IMDB rating: 7.50

Plot: In an era when Americans were in great need of heroic figures to help them forget their troubles, SEABISCUIT comes to the rescue. The picture relates a moving story of friendship and devotion in rehabilitating the main characters’fractured lives, as it interweaves the interactions between horse, jockey, trainer and owner and their adoring fans. The film accurately portrays the real people and events of those troubled times and how Seabiscuit “fixed us, every one of us.”

i get this movie here Seabiscuit in iPod/iPhone quaity

Directors: Ross Gary

Actors: McCullough David,Bridges Jeff,O’Connor Paul Vincent,Cooper Chris,Ensign Michael,Keane James,Doty David,Craig Carl M.,O’Neill Michael,Angarano Michael,Bowen Cameron,Luke Noah,Drama,History,Sport,

Why wasn't his second race at Santa Anita included in the move Seabiscuit?
It is considered maybe the greatest race ever. He was small and carrying thirty more pounds than Stagehand. He was impeded at the beginning of the race and was six lengths behind the pack. He caught them took the lead and was beaten by a nose by Stagehand.

I didn’t get back to this question the other day in time to answer the person who asked if the number 10 horse in the race at Santa Anita was not Stagehand. Seabiscuit ran in the Santa Anita Handicap three times. The number ten horse in the movie was the first time (when Red Pollack could not see him coming up). The second time he was held way back and ran out of gas at the wire though he was in the lead. Third time he won after being the only champion ever to "come back". He might easily have won all three times.


because it was made by hollywood muppets

alistair f | Dec 06, 2009

Mrz 12

Dough Boys
Dough Boys (2008)

IMDB rating: 3.80

Plot: Frank and Lou are brothers, running the family’s bakery, a fixture in their Bronx neighborhood since 1921. Lou loves it, but the rest of his life is in tatters: he lives alone, bets on the horses, and owes a loan shark. Frank, older, married, and always responsible, wants to get out of the bakery and pursue other dreams. Things come to a head on the day Lou’s marker comes due and Frank announces big news. Can the business or their relationship survive?

i find Dough Boys DivX version and download

Directors: Lombardi Louis

Actors: Lombardi Louis,Keegan Andrew,Arrigo Tony,Baldo Clyde,Borgia Rick,Deliana Andy,Iacono Gaetano,Jade Matt,Kaplan Michael Jay,Madio James,Messina Al,Mosca Frank,Pelinkovicci Musto,Tobin Michael Francis,Comedy,

Am i the only one in the world that feels so depressed over not having enough money?
I got a call from my landlady yesterday and i need to come up with $2450.00 by January 10th or else we have to get out.We have no where to go.We have no car,my husband is currently collecting unemployment he is an electrician and there just isn’t any work right now.I work 2 overnight shifts at Comfort Suites as a night auditor.We have 4 kids 3 boys who are 23,22,& 20 and a daughter who is 17 and in her last year of high school.My 20 yr old is working at our casino as a blackjack,poker,craps,roulette dealer and is making good money.He lives with my cousin.My 23 yr old has worked at a summer lodge and since it is off season, he only works like 2-3 days a week.He gets paid cash daily so about 40-50 bucks a days which is just enough to buy his cigs & weed.My 22 yr old doesn’t do sh!t. Except go and clean for his aunt at her house and in exchange for cigs & weed.Seeing as she is the big weed dealer out on our rez and pretty much rolling in the dough.We live in a small 2 bedroom apartment with me & my husband having one bedroom and our girl having the other one.The two boys sleep out in the living room and have turned my living room into their bedroom!They do not pitch in anything for rent,food, cable, internet,or even toilet paper,shampoo nothing!!I have asked, ranted, screamed and still no help whatsoever.I think they figure that as long as they split their weed with their dad it is all good.They are the reason we are so in the hole with the rent.It cost an easy 2-300.00 hundred dollars a week just to feed all of us.I have even thought of not buying groceries but then that is depriving my daughter.Man it was so nice when it was just me,her & my husband when we 1st moved in here.I can’t even just enjoy sitting in my living room cuz it more like just sitting in their bedroom which is always a mess,But my husband won’t let me say anything to them cuz might hurt their feelings,I am just so depressed and feel so hopeless.I am never going to come up with the $2400 i owe in back rent by the 10th of January.I don’t know what is going to come of us.I have terrible credit so there is no chance of getting a loan. Sorry this was so Long,but i guess i just needed to get it out.Am i the only one in the usa going through this?I sure wish i was a rich celebrity who had more money then i knew what to do with. I even thought of writing to Oprah or Ellen for help but i figured even if i did write to them for help, chances are they would never even read my poor pathetic letter. Well, thanks for letting vent And i know there is a whole lot of people out there worse off then me. Well i hope you all have a great New Year.
No i do not smoke pot. I guess i was just hopeing that someone on here would tell me to cheer up. It will all work out in the end.Not woe is me!or that we are pot smoking trailer trash!!Yeah ok so i was feeling a little sorry for myself.I know i need to get tough with these guys and i will and it sure ain;t going to be pretty.But hey, thanks for all your words of wisdom & encourgement you all sure know how to make someone feel better!!! It must be just great to be like you’s!!


Aww.. I am so sorry what you are going through. If I had money or won the lottery, I would help you out in a heartbeat, but it doesn’t go like that..

Your son’s need to quit smoking pot and grow the "f" up.. ya know. I would probably have to kick them out. They are old enough and should have their OWN place. I moved out when I was 18 years old and I have the best parents in the world. My sister is kinda like your sons. They ONLY difference is that she lives with my parents. She is 23 and on drugs and has a five year old son that my parents pretty much raises. It makes me sick. When he was in diapers, THEY bought them and worse of all even changed him. He would wake up with the pissest diaper ever and my mom would have to change him every time. I stopped there so many times to visit and just wnated to punch my sister.. He even calls my parents his mom and dad. That is sad, isn’t it?

I feel sorry for you, your husband and daughter. You daughter is 17 and shouldn’t have to live like that. Maybe she needs to try to find a job and save up money and get her own car since you or your husband don’t have one. I couldn’t imagine not having a vehicle. I have had a car since I turned 16 and I am 27 years old now and couldn’t imagine.

Why don’t you guys have a car paid for or saved up money all of these years?? I know that electricians make alot of money and you should have something to show for it! I am sure you husband can find SOMETHING to do to make money. Have you tried to apply for food stamps? Alot of people are doing it and if you need help, you NEED help. You have your 17 year old daughter and you might get over $500 a month in foodstamps and you can save that on two weeks worth of food and pay on your bills with that. Do you guys have HUD where you live? You can apply and I know here that they pay your rent for you and even give you a check to pay on your power bill if you don’t have get any income. Some places it takes a while to get on it after signing up though, but I know a girl who is on HUD right now, because she got laid off.

Life is getting really rough right now. Not just for you, but everyone. At least you don’t have grandkids to support, also or it would be really rough. Hopefully your daughter keeps straight and goes to college and makes something of herself. She can get grants and help on her boarding and stuff. :)

You could try writing to Ellen, Oprah, ect, but think about it.. How many of those letters do you think they get a day and emails, too.. You know they get tons of them, but you never know… They might do a show on economy and might just pick your letter.. It is kinda like winning the lottery though. You have a slim chance, but it might just be worth it!

I hope you get your life straightened out soon! I am so sorry to hear what you are going through and your family, too. :( If you ever need someone to talk to, you can email me w hen your bored or something. I am sorry I can’t help, but sometimes you just need to let it all out like you did and just vent out everything! Good luck!

Nascargirl24 | Jan 05, 2010


It’s time for your boys to grow up and get jobs or start helping..
Save The Drama For Your Momma!!! | Jan 05, 2010


Well aren’t you just a big pot smoking trailer trash brady bunch.
Bob | Jan 05, 2010


Sounds like to me its time for the boys to go out in the real world or help you out there. But your right this sucks being poor. I am also collecting unemployment at the moment. But im out looking for jobs whether in my Field or not just to get by. So if your husband should go try and find something also even if not in his field of work. Hope i did not offend you.
William | Jan 05, 2010


There are so many things wrong with your situation that I don’t know what to say.

It sounds like except for you and your daughter, you are living with a bunch of lazy good for nothing pot smokers that are more concerned with where their next joint is coming from than where they are going to lay their head tonight.

What a pack of losers. I’d tell you that you need to get away from them but I doubt that you would. You seem to be the only one that’s worried about the money problem.

This is way beyond sad. You need to wake up kick some azz.
auftrit | Jan 05, 2010


wow next time dont wait so long to pay the rent. always be working to make more money, hustle up some business ! maybe you and dont smoke weed but your sure acting like it. nobody is take care you accept yourselves. hell im depressed about about not havin enough money too, and i have four kids,, a house payment, a truck payment, and still have 15,000 in the bank, but i want 150,000 in the bank. you see im 135,000 short. Im laid off today and work has been slow the past year. I made about 50,000 last year, my wife about 12,000 (part time) thats about half as much as the year befor. you have to be very aggressive and never let up. now youll have excuse me, ive got to get to work to make a bunch of money wth my day off!
LARRY5 | Jan 05, 2010


Your husband is a douche. "Husband won’t let me say anything to them cuz might hurt their feelings". WTF? They are 23,22 and 20! Your sons are adults. If they aren’t going to school then they should ALL have a job. I’ll do anything for my kids, but once they become adults they better start acting like one and get a job so they can learn to support themselves. You AND your husband should be making them realize that they need to start taking some responsibility for their lives and futures. They need to learn to be MEN, not live the rest of their lives as boys that always depend on their parents. IMO
Tino {7}F U Haters | Jan 05, 2010


I don’t feel bad for you. You know about the drugs and are OK with it?!?!?!?!? That is just BEYOND me! You need to use this time looking for a new place, not crying "Woe is me". Kick the boys out. Why can’t your husband find work doing something else? Being an electrician is NOT the only work out there. He need to get off his bum and support his family! You, my dear, have no backbone and no morals if you are OK with your kids doing weed in your home. Good luck.
Insert clever name here | Jan 05, 2010


First and foremost, you need to get the cigs&weed out of your lives. Your hubby needs to grow up and learn.

1: Cigs cost a ton nowadays. Sounds like each person is a pack a day smoker. That costs about 50 or more per week per smoker. Hubby+2 sons = 150 a week. Half of your grocery bill. Just to smoke. I used to smoke. I know how hard it is.

2: your grocery bill is 200-300 because these tokers have the constant munchies. In my family of 5, it costs up to about $150 a week, ocassionally going up to $200 a week for food.

3: Everyone is feeling the pinch nowadays. I’m employed, but my pay is down 20% due to pay cuts. I haven’t had a raise in years, and the cost of living only goes up.

You aren’t the only one. But it sounds like you are the only one working or even doing anything in your household. Everyone else only cares about themselves and getting high. This might be a stern wake up call for you, that you might need to make a more major lifestyle change in order to survive.
chaoss13 | Jan 05, 2010


Lady, you have bigger issues than money to worry about
back 2 normal | Jan 05, 2010


You waited to the last minute… Where do your adult kids work? 2450/6 = 408.88 a piece come on get it girl make it work sell your stuff
Ask | Jan 05, 2010

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